Paulina Lykke – A New Chapter of Love

MOTHERHOOD

Paulina Lykke – A New Chapter of Love

Children: Mason (9), Carly (5), Isak (2)
Lives in: Copenhagen, Denmark
Work: Content Creator & Psychotherapy Student
Home: With her husband, three kids, and their dog Pippi

@paulinalykke

Copenhagen-based and a mother of three, Paulina Lykke became a parent in her early twenties. After losing her father, her son entered her life as an unexpected gift. Today, she shares honest reflections on balance, guilt, love, and rediscovering herself through motherhood.

How did your life change when you became a mother?

"Everything shifted. In my early twenties, after losing my father, my son came into my life. He was the greatest gift, arriving exactly when I needed him most. His presence marked a profound change – a new door opened, filled with love and purpose."

What do you love the most about being a mother?

"Motherhood introduced me to an unconditional and deep love. It's a beautiful connection I had never experienced before."

What’s your biggest daily challenge as a mother – and what helps you through it?

"There are never enough arms or time! With three children, I often feel stretched thin, wishing each one could receive equal love, kisses, and hugs. Guilt can creep in, but I remind myself that they are safe and deeply loved. What I give is enough."

What do you miss the most from your life before children?

"Spontaneity. I miss being able to make last-minute plans, although honestly, I’m usually too tired for that now. Still, I make an effort to carve out time for myself – moments with friends, solo outings, and time alone. These experiences recharge me and enrich my role as a mother."

How do you take care of yourself to be a present mother?

"Since my children were small, I’ve made self-care a priority. This commitment has helped me maintain a healthy balance and be more present for my family."

What surprised you the most about motherhood?

"When I became pregnant with my second child, I feared I wouldn’t have enough love to give – that I could never love another child as much as my first. But I could. I’m constantly amazed at the vastness of love our hearts can hold."

WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO TOGETHER AS A FAMILY?

"We love spending time at our summer house. The peace, nature, and absence of hectic schedules offer a beloved escape and precious quality time together."