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WORKING MOM

Mélanie Wehrli: Growing a Family While Growing a Career


Children’s names and ages: Ella-Rose, 3 months
Occupation / Work: Chef
Lives in: Berlin, Germany

Originally from Mauritius, Mélanie left home at eighteen to study fashion design in Melbourne before eventually building a life between food, retreats and creative freelance work in Berlin.

Today she cooks for events and wellness retreats while navigating early motherhood. We spoke with Mélanie about balancing work and family, redefining success, and building a life that allows space for both.

Person wearing colorful necklaces in a casual setting
Person wearing colorful necklaces in a casual setting
Dinner table with a pizza, wine glasses, and cutlery on a white tablecloth.
Dinner table with a pizza, wine glasses, and cutlery on a white tablecloth.
Person with colorful earrings and a dish of lasagna on a table.

Where were you in your career when you became a mother, and what has changed afterwards?

''I was freelancing when I became pregnant, which gave me a certain freedom in the beginning. I worked less and started to really listen to what I needed, both in my work and in my life.

I am still on maternity leave, but I take on a few projects, only the ones I know can work with my baby close to me.''

How does your everyday life look like right now?

''We both work from home and our days are flexible. Ella is still very young, but the plan is for her to start nursery with shorter days. It feels important to find a rhythm where both work and family life can exist side by side.

Right now, I work in the in between moments. When she needs me, especially when I am breastfeeding, it becomes very clear where I need to be. In those moments I cannot divide myself, my full attention is with her. Work has to adapt to that. It becomes more fragmented, more unpredictable.''

Colorful drawing of a still life scene with fruits and a pot held by a hand.
Woman breastfeeding a baby in a kitchen while preparing food.
Dining table set with plates, glasses, and a floral centerpiece outdoors.

“Right now I only give parts of myself to work, the rest is with my baby”

When do you experience the conflict between being present at work and at home the most?

''When I try to work and she needs me. Especially when I am breastfeeding, it is very clear where I need to be, I cannot split myself, my focus is entirely with her. So I let go of what I am doing.

If I really need to concentrate, my partner helps. But right now I only give parts of myself to work, the rest is with my baby.''

What have you chosen to let go of?

''I have had to let go of doing everything on my own.

It has been vulnerable, but also necessary. I am working on building a support system around me so I can work without losing myself in it. For me, it is not only about getting things done, but about doing it in a way that feels sustainable.''

Woman holding a child close to her face indoors.
Woman holding a child close to her face indoors.
Table setting with cheese, tomatoes, and eggs on a wooden table.
Table setting with cheese, tomatoes, and eggs on a wooden table.
Woman holding a baby on the left, and a table with food on the right.

“I have had to let go of doing everything on my own”

What does a typical working day look like for you and your family?

''We start the day slowly at home, with our baby and time together. Sometimes we move a little, do some yoga and arrive in our bodies before the day begins.

The rest of the day moves between her, food and small pieces of work. Things are interrupted and picked up again, work happens in the spaces in between.

And in the evening, we settle back into a slower rhythm together.''

What does success mean to you today?

''Before, success was about work and career. Now it feels completely shifted. Success no longer starts with work, it starts at home.

It is about creating a balance, an ecosystem where there is space for work, stability and family life.''

Woman interacting with a baby in a home setting
Woman interacting with a baby in a home setting
Collection of hand-drawn artwork on paper featuring various vases on a wooden floor.
Collection of hand-drawn artwork on paper featuring various vases on a wooden floor.
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A piece of advice you try to follow

''To be patient.

And to trust that things will find their shape when you stay close to what feels right.''

What is still missing in the society when it comes to working mothers?

''There is still a lack of flexibility. The possibility to stay close to your child and still have a working life. An understanding that work does not fill the entire day, and that the rest of life also matters.''

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People dining inside a restaurant with a yellow wall and large window.
Newborn baby being held by a man and woman in a home setting.
Outdoor dining area with a stone wall and greenery
Woman holding a baby in a carrier with a strawberry hat in a room.
Person preparing a pie in a kitchen with various items on the counter.
Person eating a mango with a scenic background

What do you dream of now?

''To grow my work while being a mother.

I am working with retreats and I would like to create something that also includes mothers and families. Something that aligns with the reality of my life.''

Three things you believe in

''Trust your body and its strength, be patient, do not hold on to stress.''

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Photographer: Mélanie Wehrli

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